Why am I obsessed with someone I barely know ?
When we are hit by such an obsession, a part of us feels in love, and another part of us thinks we are being weird – rightly so.
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Love addiction
Chasing unavailable partners
There are many blends of unavailable partners: uninterested ones, married ones, in-love-with-someone-else ones, and most damaging of all, narcissistic ones. I’ve chased them all.
In my internal world, we were just meant for each other. How did I know ? Because of the incredible intensity of my feelings, and the unending energy and hope I had for the “relationship”. I was over the moon, initially at least.
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Why do I always fall for the wrong guy ?
“Why do I always fall for the wrong guy?” I must admit it’s a question I asked myself a few times. And when listening to a very interesting podcast with Dr Frank Anderson on trauma and Internal Family System therapy, the answer came in a reaI “aha” moment.
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When you want not to want the one you want
Since I am currently investigating love addiction and limerence, I though I would listen to one of Martha Beck’s latest podcast, “When you want not to want what you want” with the perspective of wanting not to want a person (but failing, of course).
Well, it works. I mean, her podcast is brilliant.
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Book Review: Living with Limerence
If you know obsessive love well, if you wonder what came upon you to believe that some of your exes were so special, if your feelings and your common sense go their separate ways when you fall in love, my advice is to read this book.
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Facing love addiction
On some level, you know that the relationship is not good for you. You may even be clear that it is destroying you. And yet, you find it impossible to walk away.
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